Sources of Support
The pressures on those who minister are well known. It can be hard to regulate working hours and to know whether you’re ‘at work’ or not. The pressures are often felt by ministers’ partners, children and wider family and friendship networks and can be unseen by others.
This page is designed to direct you to the various sources of support that exist to help you flourish in your ministry.
The Diocese of Liverpool actively encourages all licensed ministers to care for their wellbeing and has signed up to the Charter for Employers Who Are Positive About Mental Health and so aims to provide non-judgemental and proactive support to individual staff who experience mental health issues.
It has long been recognised that there is no one single way to deal with the pressures of ministry, but it is important to develop a pattern of prayer, work and rest which works best for you. However, there are some simple steps that can help
Look after your physical health. Regular exercise can boost your self-esteem and can help you concentrate, sleep, and look and feel better. Exercise keeps the brain and your other vital organs healthy and is also a significant benefit of improving your mental health. Eat well, a balanced diet is needed by your brain in order to stay healthy and function well, just like the other organs in your body. A diet that’s good for your physical health is also good for your mental health.
Take your days off and holidays. We know that clergy regularly don’t stop working on their days off. It is often the case that you plan a day off and then end up working anyway when there is a knock at the door “I know it’s your day off but…” Be disciplined with yourself. Block time off in your diary and take it. Make yourself accountable to someone – a friend or family member that will remind you to switch your brain off from ministry matters, especially when you are on holiday.
Find things to do that you love outside of ministry. Get a hobby. Even a couple of hours a week thinking about something else will be beneficial and reduce stress.
Develop a good network of friends. And they don’t all have to be clergy! There is evidence to suggest that a wider social network has a positive impact on your mental wellbeing.
Ask for help and support if you need it. You are often the person that other people turn to for help and it is easy to end up carrying everyone else’s burdens. Who is there to support you? Know that help is out there if you need it. Check out the resources in the table below and also the funding opportunities page in this section, especially the Clergy Support Trust. Whatever the issue that you are struggling with you can contact your Area Dean, Archdeacon or Lifelong Learning. We can point you in the right direction to access the support you need.
Here are some sources of support we have organised scroll down to see them in helpful themes
what support? | Who is it for? | Contact |
---|---|---|
Clergy handbook | All clergy | Available to download |
Ministerial development reviews | All clergy | http://www.liverpool.anglican.org/Ministerial-Development-Review |
Spiritual direction | Anyone | http:/www.liverpool.anglican.org/Spiritual-Direction dawnharrison@hotmail.co.uk |
Retreat | Clergy | http://www.sheldon.uk.com 01647252752 http://www.liverpool.anglican.org/DTG |
The continuing ministerial study, including study leave | Clergy | 'lifelong learning' at St James' House https://liverpool.anglican.org/for-leaders/supporting-clergy/flourish-in-your-ministry/study-leave/ |
Coaching/ Mentoring | Clergy | suzanne.matthews@liverpool.anglican.org |
Reflective practice groups | 'lifelong learning' at St James' House | |
Pastoral Support | ||
Support for self-supporting clergy. | Rev Anne Murray anne.murray@liverpool.anglican.org |
|
Support for sector ministers | Rev Katy Canty katy.canty@liverpool.anglican.org |
Physical and mental flourishing
what support? | Who is it for? | Contact |
---|---|---|
Individual medical consultations focused on the mental health and wellbeing of clergy and their families | All ordained clergy | St Luke’s Healthcare for Clergy https://stlukeshealthcare.org.uk/ 020 7898 1700 (for self-referral) |
Counseling/ Theraputic suppport | Ministers and family and church army officers | Inter-diocesan counselling service http://interdiocesancounsellingservice.org.uk/ |
Mental Wellbeing | Anyone |
The NHS’s Moodzone website https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/mental-health-helplines/ MIND https://www.mind.org.uk |
Stress | Anyone | If you think you may be suffering from the effects of stress you can take an online assessment offered by the National Health Service at https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/mood-self-assessment/?tabname=common-problems |
Pastoral Support | All ministers and their families | Your Bishop, Archdeacon, Area Dean, Deanery Lay Chair or Deanery Chapter |
A confidential online forum for clergy | All ordained clergy | The Sheldon Hub sheldonhub.org |
Financial and material flourishing
What support? | Who is it for? | Contact |
---|---|---|
Clergy Support Trust | Clergy and their families | www.clergy support.org.uk 0800 389 5192 Email: grants@clergysupport.org.uk Brochure available to download |
Pensions and forecast retirement housing advice | All stipendiary ministers | Pensions board https://www.churchofengland.org/clergy-pensions 02078981000 pensions@churchofengland.org |
Debt management and money advice (for free and independent help with money matters) | Anyone | Christians against poverty https://capuk.org/ Money advisory service https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en |
Your rights and responsibilities | Anyone | Citizens advice https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/ |
Thriving in personal relationships
what support? | Who is it for? | Contact |
---|---|---|
Confidential counselling/ therapeutic support |
All ministers and their families | Inter-diocesan counselling service (IDCS) which offers professional counselling to Clergy, Church Army Officers, Ordinands and their families. Contact them via the website at http://interdiocesancounsellingservice.org.uk/ |
Relationship report | All ministers and their partners | Relate relate.org.uk |
Clergy marriage and relationship breakdown | partners of clergy following relationship breakdown or divorce | Broken rites UK https://www.brokenrites.org/ |
Marriage enrichment | All ministers and their spouses | Marriage Encounter wwme.org.uk |
Marriage preparation | All ministers and their fiancés | Engaged Encounter engagedencounter.org.uk |
When things don't go well
what support? | Who is it for? | Contact |
---|---|---|
Safeguarding of children and vulnerable adults | All ministers | Safeguarding Team Andrew Holmes 07940 378139 andrew.holmes@liverpool.anglican.org Michael Murphy 07376 431466. michael.murphy@liverpool.anglican.org |
Media and communications support | All ministers | Communications department Jude Knight jude.knight@liverpool.anglican.org 07496558530 |
Legal Support | All ministers | Diocesan Registry liverpool.registry@1Thesanctuary.com 02072225381 |
Bullying and harassment | All ministers |
Human Resources |
Support if a complaint is made about you | All ministers | The Church of England Clergy Advocates (clergy section of UNITE) unitetheunion.org 0333 123 002 |
Concerns about spiritual abuse | All ministers | Archdeacon or the Diocesan Safeguarding Advisor - Andrew Holmes andrew.holmes@liverpool.anglican.org 0151 705 2153 |
concerns about addictive behaviour | All ministers and their families | MIND mind.org.uk (search for "addiction") |